Frequently Asked Questions
Rules of Play
There is no self-serving mindset in My world which is an absolute privilege to enter. Show Me the utmost respect and surrender and submit all of your body and soul to Me. W/we will enter a beautiful and unique power exchange that will be impossible to forget. My integrity and commanding presence will enter you into another world and bring you back, always with intention, healing and care.
How do you prefer to be addressed?
As Mistress or Mistress Monique.
It is imperative that those who wish to contact Me do so with formality and with respect. Starting the application or an email with "hey" or addressing Me as Miss or Ma'am, shows disrespect for My chosen honourific.
Where are you located?
In Melbourne, Australia.
I love to travel so I am happy to consider travel using a fly Me to you (FMTY) arrangement, extended arrangements or overnights.
Where do you session from?
I session from a fully equipped studio in the West Melbourne area. It is close to public transport and there is free street parking in the vicinity.
Depending on the type of activities, I also session from selective play spaces including a space in Southbank and in hotel rooms in the Melbourne area based upon both O/our respective locations.
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I enjoy extended arrangements and overnight experiences. Depending on the activities and intimacy we may engage in, these will be held at the studio in West Melbourne or delightfully kinky spaces that reflect a real world FLR. The accommodation for these are in Coburg, Brunswick or suitable hotels.
I can attend regional locations with an additional travel fee. I do not attend private residential premises unless it is at My discretion where you are an existing and highly reliable client of mine.
Do you offer outcalls?
I am pleased to offer outcall appointments to four and five star hotels in the Melbourne CBD area or nearby surrounding suburbs.
I will also require access to the space alone prior to the session, to set up the space, My equipment and get ready prior to the session.
I would like to see you today or tomorrow, is this possible?
I may make an exception for ongoing, previous and generous clients. Case-by-case, and always at My discretion.
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I will consider a rush session (24-48 hours) with an additional $150.00 fee.
A session with Me or even a dinner date and Domination requires planning and preparation. My vetting process requires U/us to communicate via Zoom or the phone prior to a session to see if W/we are compatible and make the arrangements to progress to a session.
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A RUSH SESSION FOR A FIRST TIME CLIENT is any request within a 48 hour window. This gives time for screening and will allow Me to (possibly) accommodate you on My schedule and make any necessary schedule changes. There will be a mandatory 30 minute screening and vetting video call that must be set immediately, this call is $50 and further details are listed in My screening policy. In the call you will be required to verify yourself by holding up an unredacted government issued ID/Drivers licence or passport.
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WHEN REQUESTING A RUSH SESSION WITH ME:
*I expect quick response times, or this will result in Me possibly declining your request.
*Be ready to send the 50% non refundable deposit to secure your booking on My schedule.
*Empty rush inquiries will result in a $250 block fee.
*Check your spam.
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Can I apply to be your personal slave?
The honour of being a personal slave to a Mistress is not a title given freely. It takes time to develop a relationship of that caliber with Me.
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A personal slave is one who may have:
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Seen Me regularly in a professional capacity, provided a skillset to enhance My lifestyle and taken the steps to honour My Fempire through investing in Me.
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If this is what you aspire to do, then I encourage you to put in that effort and time with Me. This should be through O/our sessions and building a connection together. You may politely inquire about how you can assist Me further in My life and lifestyle.
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Committing to sessions with Me regularly and bringing along gifts or treats that enhance My craft and My realm is a wonderful place to start.
What payment methods do you accept?
The initial zoom call and deposit can be paid using the following;
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Beem
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Revolut
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Throne
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Prezzee gift card
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Cryptocurrency
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The remaining session total after deposit, can be paid using the above listed methods or cash.
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For Australian applicants, Beem will be the easiest option. Beem is a fast, free, anonymous and verifiably safe form of transfer that is backed by all of the major banks.
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For Internationally based applicants, Throne, Revolut, Prezee and Cryptocurrency are the best choices. All allow anonymity and discretion.
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What can I do to make my application stand out?
Remember that you are applying to serve a Dominatrix and not speaking to your friends, this is another world and one to embrace wholeheartedly. Think about going beyond that which is required for a job application in terms of formality.
You have come this far in establishing that I am the right Dominant for you, so I encourage you to give Me the ammunition I require in knowing as much as I can about you, your psychology and your experiences to date. A detailed and thoughtful and application, will make you stand out more.
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Sending a gift of a coffee or cocktail via Throne for Me to enjoy whilst reading your application, will assist in making it stand out and enhance My enjoyment.
I have never seen a Pro Domme before, is there anything else I need to know?
Mistress Simone Justice has an excellent article on how to behave in the presence of a Pro Domme.
https://www.simonejustice.com/single-post/behavior-with-a-dominant
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Show up to sessions on time, cleanly shaven in nether regions and fully shaven in all intimate areas, clean body, teeth brushed, without perfume/cologne, and with tribute as instructed. If inside cleansing is necessary here are instructions (https://howtocleanyourass.wordpress.com/).