Frequently Asked Questions
Rules of Play
I mindfully require complete physical, emotional and psychological domination over you as I know what is best for you in your kink experience and ongoing journey. There is no self-serving mindset in My world which is an absolute privilege to enter. Show Me the utmost respect and surrender and submit all of your body and soul to Me. W/we will enter a beautiful and unique power exchange that will be impossible to forget. My integrity and commanding presence will enter you into another world and bring you back, always with intention, healing and care.
How do you prefer to be addressed?
As Mistress or Mistress Monique.
It is imperative that those who wish to contact Me do so with formality and with respect. Starting the application or an email with "hey" or addressing Me as Miss or Ma'am, shows disrespect for My chosen honourific.
Where are you located?
In Melbourne, Australia.
I love to travel so I am happy to consider travel using a fly Me to you (FMTY) arrangement.
Where do you session from?
I session from selective play spaces, hotel rooms and air bnb's in the Melbourne area based upon both O/our respective locations. I can attend regional locations with an additional travel fee. I do not attend private residential premises unless it is at My discretion where you are an existing and highly reliable client.
Do you offer outcalls?
I am pleased to offer outcall appointments to four and five star hotels in the Melbourne CBD area or nearby surrounding suburbs. If W/we have not sessioned before and I have never met you, W/we will need to meet for a compensated coffee meeting on top of the required zoom call prior to attending the location of an outcall such as a hotel room if you are travelling. I will also require access to the space alone to set up and get ready prior to the session.
I would like to see you today or tomorrow, is this possible?
I do not accommodate same day or short notice bookings unless you are an existing client of Mine. I will consider a rush session (24-48 hours) with an additional $150.00 fee.
A session with Me or even a dinner date and Domination requires planning and preparation. My vetting process requires U/us to communicate via Zoom or the phone prior to a session to see if W/we are compatible. I may make an exception for previous and generous clients. Case-by-case, and always at My discretion.
Can I apply to be your personal slave?
The honour of being a personal slave to a Mistress is not a title given freely. It takes time to develop a relationship of that caliber with Me.
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A personal slave is one who may have:
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Seen Me regularly in a professional capacity, provided a skillset to enhance My lifestyle and taken the steps to honour My Fempire through investing in Me.
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If this is what you aspire to do, then I encourage you to put in that effort and time with Me. This should be through O/our sessions and building a connection together. You may politely enquire about how you can assist Me further in My life and My lifestyle.
What can I do to make my application stand out?
Remember that you are applying to serve a Dominatrix and not speaking to your friends, this is another world and one to embrace wholeheartedly. Think about going beyond that which is required for a job application in terms of formality.
You have come this far in establishing that I am the right Dominant for you, so I encourage you to give Me the ammunition I require in knowing as much as I can about you and your psychology. A detailed, thoughtful and articulate application, will make you stand out more.
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Sending a gift makes your application stand out. The link to My gifting site is in the Adoration tab.
I have never seen a Pro Domme before, is there anything else I need to know?
Mistress Simone Justice has an excellent article on how to behave in the presence of a Pro Domme.
https://www.simonejustice.com/single-post/behavior-with-a-dominant
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Show up to sessions on time, cleanly shaven in nether regions and fully shaven in all intimate areas, clean body, teeth brushed, without perfume/cologne, and with tribute as instructed. If inside cleansing is necessary here are instructions (https://howtocleanyourass.wordpress.com/).