Obey

I am an ethically minded Dominatrix whom has studied under one of the most ethical Dominatrices in the world, Mistress Damiana Chi Ph.D. I follow Her protocol of Safe, Sane, Consensual and Ethical. The ethical component is an important and valued addition to the original SSC model. I also follow the FRIES model for consent. FREELY given, REVERSIBLE, INFORMED, ENTHUSIASTIC and SPECIFIC.

Informed consent, negotiation and safe words form the basis of play. As you will see in the application form to serve Me, I ask an extensive number of questions to delve deep into your mind and your submissive psychology. The questions allow you to delve deep into your own submission and learn about yourself in the process.

I hold an ongoing and current first aid certificate, provide CPR certificate and take the responsibility to look after you as My submissive seriously. During play I will monitor you using a combination of deep intuition, the traffic light system (green, orange, red) and through feeling your responses physically, verbally and emotionally.

Rules of Play

Booking a Session

First time bookings are required to complete an application and go through My vetting process. There are no exceptions. I am proudly bisexual and will accept worship from men, women, and gender-diverse subjects.

Vetting Process

To support My vetting process, I ask for two Professional Dominatrix references. If you do not have Professional references, list any Dominatrices you have served in any lifestyle capacity or put N/A in the application text box.

If I deem your application worthy to progressing to the next stage of a zoom call, then I will email you directly to obtain a clear picture of your I.D such as a driver's licence. In the zoom call, I will be comparing the picture sent and ask for the I.D to be shown again to confirm your identity and verify your age.

I value your assistance with My process and can assure you I care for and respect your reputation. Any information will be regarded with utmost diligence & discretion.

Application Process

Step 1: Complete the online application form.

Step 2: If your application has sparked My interest then I will email you to arrange a Zoom call to assess our compatibility and obtain required screening documents. This is a mandatory step for all new clients. The call is an important step for both of U/us to see each others faces and is an opportunity to ask questions of one another. I will ask you follow up questions to the answers provided to Me on the application form. This call will build anticipation towards O/our session and create a foundation for what will hopefully be a unique connection.

This Zoom call costs $50 and will last approximately 30 minutes. If you think you may have a significant amount of questions for Me let Me know and we can book in the call for 1 hour at a cost of $100. There is an option to undertake an in person social date as the first meet instead of a zoom call. This is at a cost of $200 for 1 hour. Both options are an upfront cost to secure a time on My calendar.

Step 3: If W/we have both chosen to progress to a session then a 50% deposit is required to book your session with Me. Once this deposit has been received booking dates and times can be discussed. Further instructions will be sent regarding all other formalities, such as, confirmation process, payment of remaining session cost and protocols.

Cancellation Policy

Sessions cancelled 48 hours and above can be rescheduled with an additional $200 deposit which will go towards the total cost of the session. The rescheduled session must be on My calendar within one calendar month.

If you cancel within 24 hours of the booking then your deposit will be forfeited. I may make exceptions on exceptional circumstances for cancellations at My discretion. All future sessions will be required to pay the entire session in full at the time of booking, to show your devotion and good will.

If you do not show to O/our scheduled booking and do not provide any notice, you will not be allowed to book with Me again and your deposit will be forfeited.

In the rare event I am required to cancel our session, I will reschedule at My earliest availability. If rescheduling is not an option for you, I will refund the deposit using the same method as how it was received with the exception of deposits paid using throne whereby the refund will take place through Beem.

Termination of Session

As a risk aware BDSM professional, I will not session with you if you arrive under the influence of drugs or alcohol. Arriving intoxicated or high results in immediate session cancellation and forfeiture of your deposit. you will not be allowed to book with Me again. you will also forfeit your deposit and the session will be cancelled if you arrive sick and unwell, which is a risk to My health.

If you disrespect My hard limits and attempt to touch Me without My direction and consent, then the session will be terminated and the session cost will be forfeited.